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Post by kazakichik on Jun 21, 2004 23:08:30 GMT -5
i'm miserable because i keep on thinking that their love was so strong that nobody can have that.  while i was reading the book, i came to this one part where they reunited, everyone knows that. and you could just picture what they looked like standing there. you just knew that they were the greatest match known to man kind! any one agree? everytime i watch something on tv, i just want to bawl my eyes out. because every so-called "love story" seems soooo incredibly pathetic in my eyes. i am sooo very miserable inside anyone agree? wwwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhh |
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Post by Katryna on Jun 22, 2004 0:02:38 GMT -5
Yes, i totally agree  its so magical when you see touching love stoires where the 2 characters are so ultimately perfect for each other that it makes you long for them...after the movie and in your own life. sadly, these romances are unlreastic...but everytime i see a movie like this, or read a book by nicholas sparks- i'm reminded that someone on this earth, that kind of love is happening between 2 people, and that one day- it just MIGHT happen to me. if only we could all have a to-die-for, crazy, heartwarming, can't-live-without, passionate, bittersweet love story like noah and allie.  |
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Post by Ninthwoman on Jun 22, 2004 0:08:18 GMT -5
What was wonderful about their love, however, was that it wasn't perfect. There's that scene, right before the "What do you want?" scene, where he says, "Fighting is what we do. You tell me I'm being a son of a b----, and I tell you you're being a pain in the ass." So it was still a rollercoaster, still a struggle, still a lot of work. And there was a lot of pain. There was pain when they broke up. There was pain when Allie had to choose. There was pain when Duke had to watch Allie slip away from him and not know him. It's so easy to cheer for them when they overcome this that we don't necessarily always really FEEL what it must be like when they're hurting. Because their relationship took a lot of work, a lot of sacrifices, and went through a lot of hurt and suffering, I don't think it's an out-of-this world relationship. I think many of us have it more than we realize. Many of us don't, but many of us do. I really believe that. Okay, I'm going to stop being preachy. |
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Post by SimplyLuscious on Jun 22, 2004 0:13:31 GMT -5
That's true. A relationship includes lot of fusses and loving time. Me...? I find more of fusses, but I don't understand why I'm still sticking with the same person for four years now. **sigh** He's lucky then. ;D I wish I could have a relationship like theirs... So much love into it, yet quarrels, which is why their relationship so believable to, us, viewers. Like Ninthwoman say, we all go through it, too. It's not perfect and their wasn't either. But I don't mind if mine is perfect, but keep on dreaming me.  |
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Post by Katryna on Jun 22, 2004 0:14:48 GMT -5
What was wonderful about their love, however, was that it wasn't perfect. There's that scene, right before the "What do you want?" scene, where he says, "Fighting is what we do. You tell me I'm being a son of a b----, and I tell you you're being a pain in the ass." So it was still a rollercoaster, still a struggle, still a lot of work. And there was a lot of pain. There was pain when they broke up. There was pain when Allie had to choose. There was pain when Duke had to watch Allie slip away from him and not know him. It's so easy to cheer for them when they overcome this that we don't necessarily always really FEEL what it must be like when they're hurting. Because their relationship took a lot of work, a lot of sacrifices, and went through a lot of hurt and suffering, I don't think it's an out-of-this world relationship. I think many of us have it more than we realize. Many of us don't, but many of us do. I really believe that. Okay, I'm going to stop being preachy. this is very true...but all the big passionate stories usually involve alot of sacrifices and hard ships...they're not all easy. i was more referring to that kind of love that you feel you can't live without...that total and fufilling complete-ness you get from that one special person. this is surely what noah and allie had, even when they were separated. most people don't go through life with a love like that...though i can't exactly speak from experience as i've never been in love  so i'll stop babbling now.  |
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Post by kazakichik on Jun 22, 2004 0:33:58 GMT -5
thank you guys so much
i wish that someday i would find my soulmate like they found eachother. i still want to cry it's so romantic and i know this is the kind of love story that happens to on;y about 2 in a billion people. my opinion. thanks again
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Post by anysia4ev on Aug 25, 2004 17:24:27 GMT -5
i totally know what you mean. after seeing the movie the 1st time i was like, what if i never find that "special someone" it left me feeling sad. and then i figured, what if i do find that someone. Their love in the movie can really happen between "actual" people. its totally possible. as long as the two people are full of love for eachother, and passion, and of course they still fight. you have to fight to keep a relationship going. thats how it is. i really hope someday i find my noah lol
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Post by Kwin on Aug 25, 2004 18:22:34 GMT -5
you guys are very right. i said it on another post but i'll say it again. after seeing the notebook, my expectations for love flew off the chart. anything less than the love that noah and allie shared was just not enough. i love their relationship because no matter what the problem is, they always manage to find a way back to each other, like being separated for 7 years without contact. when they got back together, it's like you can feel the emotions that they feel after seeing the one they love come back to them. it's so powerful |
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Post by katryna on Aug 25, 2004 18:31:02 GMT -5
I think I long for the type of lifelong passion that Noah and Allie shared. I mean, their passion was evident through not only through kissing and pysical things (lol) but fighting and arguements more than anything else. And it grew and evolved over the years...but even when they were apart, they were still truly in love with each other. i think THATS what we all want in a relationship...after many years to still feel the same way with that person as the first time you admitted to loving them. sorry for my spelling mistakes |
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Post by ThoseSummerNights on Aug 25, 2004 18:51:05 GMT -5
I agree. I think everyone longs for the kind of love displayed in The Notebook, b/c although it might not be perfect (no love is), it's still passionate, unconditional, and everlasting. I have always been lonely for that kind of love, but lately I've been more hopeful. When you see something like that, you realize that it does exist in this world, and it is possible. I come away with hope for the future.  |
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while i was reading the book, i came to this one part where they reunited, everyone knows that. and you could just picture what they looked like standing there. you just knew that they were the greatest match known to man kind! any one agree? everytime i watch something on tv, i just want to bawl my eyes out. because every so-called "love story" seems soooo incredibly pathetic in my eyes. 
its so magical when you see touching love stoires where the 2 characters are so ultimately perfect for each other that it makes you long for them...after the movie and in your own life. sadly, these romances are unlreastic...but everytime i see a movie like this, or read a book by nicholas sparks- i'm reminded that someone on this earth, that kind of love is happening between 2 people, and that one day- it just MIGHT happen to me. 
